Sister dating ex husband

21 Jan

Meetings are free, some are available online, and “the only requirement for membership is a desire for healthy and loving relationships.” Your decision not to share this with your sister or her girlfriend is, I think, a wise one, and while I can’t promise that this is going to go away overnight, I do think that with therapeutic work and assistance you will find things get better.I love my sister and have no interest in straining our relationship, or her relationship with this woman, which is healthy and happy.Equally, I refuse to burden either of them with this crush that has, frankly, gotten wildly out of control—it would trouble both of them to know they’re hurting me.I have tried hanging out with them together to show myself how happy they are together.When that didn’t work, I hoped the semester that I was taking abroad would do the trick, but the feelings didn’t abate.

We all grew up together and I’ve always felt we had a strong connection, but it was only months before they began dating that I began to consider my feelings as more than a friendship.Now, I am desperate to get over them but find myself at a loss. I have gone on dates with other people (of both genders, to see if that was the issue—it didn’t help).She became pregnant around the same time divorce docs were filed. with their 4-year-old son but she wanted to live in New York for professional reasons.