Dating columbian girls

24 Jan

Show some chivalry; let your date sit first, be respectful with the people around you, and of course, forget about your phone. “Te ves muy linda”, “Me encantan tus chistes”, or whatever flows into the conversation will score extra points. If talking to you seems like talking to a new friend, you’ll probably become ‘just another one’ on the dating list. Give her a nice look, lightly touch her leg, or hug her if she’s cold.

A Colombian boyfriend will give you a lot of attention, show you around his city and teach you about his culture, and can be very, very romantic.

As with any other multicultural relationship, there can also be some challenges, or thins that you haven’t experienced before in past relationships.

However, if the words ‘comer’ and ‘tirar’ are in your repertoire, be sure to use them very carefully, unless you want to screw it up.

Take advantage of your sense of humor when you are with a Colombian.

If she tells you she’s on the way, that means she’s about to take a shower.”You can usually tell when a woman is interested, either by the way they flirt with you or stare at you, or, in some cases, when they make the first move by telling you directly that they like you, sometimes with a kiss. Maybe a jealous boyfriend won’t kill you, but acid attacks are on the rise here and that would be an unpleasant fate for trying to win the affections of someone in a relationship. Take her to something low-key with a very social vibe.

I understand there are cases in which you will not know. “We’re figuring things out right now,” a polite way to say, “Have some respect and don’t interfere.”Hygiene is a big deal in Medellín so if you want to compete with the Colombian guys and other foreigners, shower at least once a day, twice if you had to do something that caused you to sweat throughout the day. (Mercado del Rio in Poblado is a great example of this type of environment, filled with young professionals, students and couples.) See this article and this one for some additional suggestions.

If joking is not in your veins, at least, laugh with her.

We are cheerful and we like to make jokes even of our misfortunes.

Women are typically there to dance to music that does not encourage them to grind with you, as reggaeton does.

Here’s a good one, courtesy of my friend Jessie, a Miami native born to Ecuadorian parents who now has a paisa girlfriend: “If you want to meet up at 7 p.m., set the date for .